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Thursday, June 21, 2012

Make up YOUR Mind

Disclaimer: It takes more effort to be a hater.  So, why do it?  I could hate on Hungreeboy because he took my girl.  But why should I do that when I can just go to The #JuneBirthdayBash tomorrow at Club Miami and spy on her.  Yea...  I'm going to do that.  #Salute to D. Mill.  And you guessed it, that has NOTHING to do with my blog.  Welp... Here it goes...

I'm getting ready to step on some toes!  Including my own.  I watched T.D. Jakes the other morning and I took A LOT from the message.  Not sure how many of my followers wake up that early to watch it, so I will tell you what I got from the message. 

"Don't let other people's opinions determine your success.  People will always identify you from how they met you".  Dang...  That's so true.  Think about it.  If you met a stripper working in a strip club, right?  No matter how many times you see her at church, you're going to say, "Ayyyee...  That's that stripper!  Who did the thang with the bottle, the balloon and the ice cubes"!  "Word?  Stop playing..." "DUDE...  THAT'S HER"! 

And if you allow people to label you, a dawg will ALWAYS be a dawg!  I know four and half females (one was a midget birthday cake dancer.  I know it's weird... smh) who I "knew" in my ratchet Undergrad days who will tell ANY future prospects, "Don't do it gurl...  I remember when he... (insert any dirt you can POSSIBLY think of. lol)

So, if you allow people to tell you who YOU ARE, you will NEVER rise above what they think of you.  So, don't do it!  Brother Ray Singleton told me, "The most powerful thing in the world is a made up mind".  Make up your mind on what you want out of life and what you WILL get out of life!  The only person stopping you, is you!  And STOP trying to convince people that you have changed or you're doing this now...  It's wasting precious time and energy that you can spend achieving your goals rather than trying to convince people that you "got it". 

The people who support you, decided that they wanted to support you.  The people who hate you, WILL hate you until THEY decide that it's not worth it anymore.  YOU can't do ANYTHING about it.   So, live YOUR life and stop tripping...  *cues outro music* "Say truuuu...  I ain't never told no lie... I ain't never told no lie...  Yaaaa..."

~Jay Dukes qka Mr. Million Dollars qka Mr. "Hey... You Look Familiar" qka Mr. 106 and Park

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