Genuine Love vs. Crazy In Love

Disclaimer: LOL… I’m already laughing because the craziest things happen to me. No lie! I love the LOVE that Dj T. Mobile and myself are receiving from Winthrop University. Yes, all the #WUHOMECOMINGSTEPSHOW tweets are because we will be there Saturday to shut the show DOWN! And yerp, you guessed it… That has NOTHING to do with this post. *shrugs* Here it goes… 

People get confused! That’s the bottom line… 

*In my n&^^% voice* “Why tha F*&^ you tweeting that n*&&^?” <--- Crazy in Love

*In my concerned voice* “Babe, you haven’t tweeted all day and you didn’t call me this morning. You ok?”  <----- Genuine Love

But, what’s love to you? That’s a difficult ass word to describe. Everybody has their different perceptions of what that word really means. It’s hard to see a person in a situation that is killing them and you can’t do anything about it. Brother Singleton told me, “The most powerful thing in the world is a made up mind.” Once you have it made up in your mind that you are in Love with a person that’s it… You might as well hang it up. So, you try to hold on and hold on. But for what though? Just because your significant other loves you? I think #thatshitcray.

 

Pause: Fellas, Ladies… whatever… Listen to me clearly! STOP F*&^%N’ beating yourself up over mistakes you made in the PAST! That pisses me off! I hate it! I hate it! Let it GOOOO! You don’t owe anybody ANYTHING who has decided to stick in there with you. Perfect example: You are out to eat at Dukes’ Elegant Bistro (It’s coming… shut up!) and there is hair in your food. *In my hood rat voice* “Ooooo… F*&^ NO! Can I see the manager please…” As the manager, I apologize and tell you your meal is free… As the manager, that’s IT! I gave you a free meal, you ACCEPTED the free meal! You left happy. I go back to work! BUT… You come BACK to my restaurant! You order a steak well done and it’s not cooked all the way… As the manager, I’m NOT going to keep giving you FREE ish! For some reason my cook don’t like you! I’m sorry. BUT if you keep deciding to come back, then you like SOMETHING about my restaurant. It can’t be the food (Fellas- her attitude or Ladies- a dude who plays Madden and ignores you on the phone) but it’s something! It’s some reason that you keep coming back and sitting at table 62 and ordering exactly two croissants and water with no lemon while you wait. Play:

 

If your significant other is ready to call it off every time you all hit a rough patch, then one day you have to really see if it was love or not. And females, yall are TERRIBLE with basing your feelings off of your man’s reactions. We have always heard, “Anything worth having is worth fighting for”. But I thought you fought your enemies. I have never heard about a war where the troops fought against each other. Too many females get up, grab their stuff and head to the door thinking, “I’m going to this door and this Motha’ F*&^$# BETTER stop me!” Really? Really ma’am?

 

If you grab your keys and your hoe bag and head straight to the door yelling, “I can’t do this anymore. Whatever. I’m done!” Then me jumping up and racing you to the door saying, “What? You ain’t going NO WHERE! What’s wrong with you?” sounds CRAZY… <---- Crazy In Love. Genuine Love is allowing a person to make their own decisions hoping that they will include you in them. Genuine Love is wanting your lady to be happy at whatever cost that may be. Don’t put on a fake smile because I’m jumping for joy, but you are really miserable inside. If you are man enough to tell a lady, “I want you to be happy, even if it’s not with me…” Then you are CRAZY because now you are looking like a dumb ass. But you WILL be rewarded for being a real and GENUINE person. How a person feels can and will change; but their characteristics and who they really are won‘t.

 

Summary:

 

1.) Really think about what love is to you…

2.) Can’t really think of anything else.

3.) Don’t take my advice.

4.) Follow me on Twitter @jaydukes1911

~Jay Dukes qka Mr. Million Dollars qka Mr. “Hey… You Look Familiar”