The easiest thing for a female to give is sex. I’m sorry, I said it. I PROMISE you that it is easier to f*&^ a female with less than four partners than a female with more than ten. Because the whore, sorry I call it how I see it, the whore sees value in her vagina. That’s what she’s known for. A whore will f*&^ wit a dude just because she wants a nut, understanding that that’s all he wanted too. She’s happy, he’s happy… Get the HELL ON! But have you ever noticed that whores try to change with YOU?! Even though as a dude, I know plenty of dudes who have drilled. BUT… you are an angel now?! Whoa ma’am! A whore that sees potential in you will hold out FOREVER with giving YOU the goods, even though she‘s f*&^%n‘ somebody else. Why? Because over the years that has became her prized possession. “Happy Birthday… Vagina!” “Merry Christmas… Vagina!” “Happy New Year‘s!!!! Guess what I got for you… VAGINA!” And why does the whore see potential in YOU because they have ALREADY lowered their way of thinking.” The following is the whore thinking, “I hope he knows he doesn’t have to take me out… if he just wants to F*&^! I hope he knows he doesn’t have to open doors for me… if he just wants to F&^%! I hope he knows that he doesn’t have to text me ’Good Morning’ or ’Good Night’ if he… say it with me people… JUST WANTS TO F*&^! But since he is, I guess I got a good one!” It’s a dumb way of thinking, but it happens. So, if she wants this to work, her mentality is “hold out girl, HOLD out!” because honestly, after she gives you the goods… “What else does she have to give you?!”
The female with three and a half partners will, more than likely, give it up if the timing and feeling is right. But with this female you are not putting in work for sex! You are actually putting in work for her heart. It may be hard to believe and a little backwards, but it’s true. Think about it, if a female is 21+ with three or less partners, then they are not ADICKted to sex. They have learned to do without it. It’s not that valuable to them. (And she probably has more Toy Stories than Andy!) But anyway, if you f*&^ you STILL have a LOOOONNNNGGGG way to go. A female will let you drill when they reached a certain comfort zone. But getting a female’s heart takes an extraordinary amount of trust and commitment. And that’s what she finds valuable. Can she trust you enough to tell you things without you judging her! Like, she had an abortion? Or that her uncle died right after they got in an argument? All hypothetical, but the point is, if a female thinks of you enough to allow you to see into her life, her mind, and her heart, then you are that special one. That’s like her giving you the keys to her front door. Do you give EVERYBODY your house key? Nah…
I say that to say, that’s why it’s a scary feeling for a female that you are dealing with to lean emotionally on another dude. Why did that motha F*&^#$ get a key?! Maybe he listens better… You ever got frustrated in the lack of communication? “Listen, Stop crying… TALK TO ME!” Response: “I don’t have anything to say”. She doesn’t trust you yet. And personally, I start to get frustrated, “Man… if we don’t have trust, we don’t have anything. So, what’s the purpose…?” And I had to realize that that ish takes TTTTTIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMEEEEE!!!!
I had to realize that at my job, 107.3 Jamz in Greenville, SC, I worked as a Part-Time Promotions Assistant for FOUR YEARS!!!! Putting up the tent, taking down the tent. (And repeat). I was never late to a remote, and I was reliable. I was faithful with the little things and that began my trust ladder. After FOUR YEARS, they finally gave me a microphone. Ending question, when thinking about females who prove to be a challenge, ask yourself, “Have I been faithful with the little things?” If she can’t trust you to be on-time to the movies, if she can’t trust you to call right back when you say, “Babe, let me call you right back”, then do you think she is going to trust you with her house key? *waits for answer* Trust ME, it can be frustrating to remain “faithful with the little things”, but if it’s something that you want, you will get. Hard work pays off and nobody ever drowned in sweat. It took me four years to get a mic. But it was worth it…
Summary:
1.) I didn't call anyone a whore. Judge yourself though
2.) Know when to throw in the towel
3.) Wash the towel
4.) Follow me on Twitter @jaydukes1911
Jay Dukes qka Mr. Million Dollars qka Mr. "Hey... You Look Familiar"
You went deep on this and since I don't mind being transparent I will agree to a certain degree speaking from experience. I like sex so therefore if I find a dude that I find attractive and that's all I want and that's all he wants, I'm good. I hate people playing games, that's how people get jacked up emotionally (I don't know if you'd call that whore thinking, but it is what it is). As for that holding out thing,people can change, but me personally I really don't value sex to the point I think its a treasure. It's just a fun activity, lol. The only real value is the earning of trust and when a guy is willing to not judge you because you have the same desires as him and wants to earn your trust, then that's how I judge his worth (It can go vice versa too). But you right about the opening up part. I was only open to one guy and I always kept my deep thoughts away from guys I just wanted a nut from. But for the most part I agree completely.
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