Disclaimer: I haven’t written a blog in a MONTH. So, if I’m a little rusty, call me out! I’m serious! Welp… Here it goes.
Just simply living life you find yourself in certain situations. One thing I talk about often is RELATIONSHIPS. *shrugs* And ladies, the most hurtful part of relationships is the actual break up. Not the “he f-ed up” and now “he wants to make up” part. The actual “We are no longer together. What you don’t understand part”?
After that occurs, there is a period of bitterness for both parties. We each go through the “ok… whatever… Ok… Whatever…” phase. Then after time goes on, BOTH PARTIES, start to think… “Damn. I really miss this motha f-er”!
NOW… If you really spent time with a person. Not just running game. But if you had TIME in… then after a while, you are going to realize that this ish ain’t the same. And moving on is easier said than done. AMEN?
So, one person tries to get back. Let’s call that person The Doctor. Because they are whole-heartedly willing to heal the situation/relationship. And one person is going to be stubborn and reluctant. Let’s call this person… The Donkey! And didn’t your momma always tell you, “When you go in this doctor’s office, tell them EXACTLY what’s wrong with you. Because if you don’t, then they don’t know what to check for or WHAT TO FIX”! You have had diarrhea for the past three days, when you stand up you get dizzy, and you get migraines in the morning. BUT when you go to that doctor’s office and he asks, “So, what’s going on today?” all you say is… “Mannn… My stomach hurt”! So, the doctor can’t do ISH for you because you won’t talk! SO DUMB!
Ok… Continuing… We must learn to look at our own flaws. When in a relationship, but all of a sudden, it’s over… somebody messed up! Even if you tell your homeboys, “I mean… We just kinda called it off. It was a mutual agreement”. BAHAHAHAAHAHA… That is a LIE from satan. Like I said, somebody messed up a good thing. (If you ever had one)
Question: Who is The Doctor? The one who messed up? From responses to my tweets, people said that The Doctor is the one who messed up because they matured, and realized that they won’t do any better so they stopped tripping and tried to heal the situation! *puts hand on chin* I would like to challenge that. I think The Donkey is the person who messed up! WHY…
(Deep breath) (Long sigh) Because people are no longer genuine. Well, not too many people. I can count on one hand how many genuine females I have ran into in my LIFETIME! #nolie. The Donkey messed up and is STILL making things difficult because if you’re not to a point, male or female, that you are COMPLETELY done with bs-in’ around, then it is difficult to re-commit because you’re HUMAN! And there is no worst feeling than to keep messing up and keep getting caught! So, if I put in little to NO effort to fix the situation, my conscious can deal with that. Because who knows… I could mess up again! *shrugs*
By The Doctor taking time to fix ish AGAIN, with a stubborn patient, The Donkey, they have went above and beyond the call of duty. After-hours, house call type ish. But why so much effort? Because you can lie to your head, but you can’t like to you heart. You will notice after time goes on, that this m f-er, flaws and all, made you happier than somebody that’s super-compatible, cute, freaky, etc. That’s why you see beautiful ladies with busted dudes because you might not see it, but he makes her happy. Every female just wants to be happy. You might be happy for a while, hopefully forever, but if it gets rocky again, The Doctor has the liberty to say, “I don’t know why I even took your trifling ass back”! And since little to no effort was put forth to help heal, The Donkey, has the liberty to respond, “You didn’t F*&^$* HAVE TO”!
Summary:
1.) The Doctor can’t operate on anybody who isn’t willing to get on the operating table.
2.) It hurts more to do it all alone. First, evaluate if it’s worth it.
3.) Don’t take my advice.
4.) Follow me on Twitter @jaydukes1911.
~Jay Dukes qka Mr. Million Dollars qka Mr. “Hey… You Look Familiar”
Just simply living life you find yourself in certain situations. One thing I talk about often is RELATIONSHIPS. *shrugs* And ladies, the most hurtful part of relationships is the actual break up. Not the “he f-ed up” and now “he wants to make up” part. The actual “We are no longer together. What you don’t understand part”?
After that occurs, there is a period of bitterness for both parties. We each go through the “ok… whatever… Ok… Whatever…” phase. Then after time goes on, BOTH PARTIES, start to think… “Damn. I really miss this motha f-er”!
NOW… If you really spent time with a person. Not just running game. But if you had TIME in… then after a while, you are going to realize that this ish ain’t the same. And moving on is easier said than done. AMEN?
So, one person tries to get back. Let’s call that person The Doctor. Because they are whole-heartedly willing to heal the situation/relationship. And one person is going to be stubborn and reluctant. Let’s call this person… The Donkey! And didn’t your momma always tell you, “When you go in this doctor’s office, tell them EXACTLY what’s wrong with you. Because if you don’t, then they don’t know what to check for or WHAT TO FIX”! You have had diarrhea for the past three days, when you stand up you get dizzy, and you get migraines in the morning. BUT when you go to that doctor’s office and he asks, “So, what’s going on today?” all you say is… “Mannn… My stomach hurt”! So, the doctor can’t do ISH for you because you won’t talk! SO DUMB!
Ok… Continuing… We must learn to look at our own flaws. When in a relationship, but all of a sudden, it’s over… somebody messed up! Even if you tell your homeboys, “I mean… We just kinda called it off. It was a mutual agreement”. BAHAHAHAAHAHA… That is a LIE from satan. Like I said, somebody messed up a good thing. (If you ever had one)
Question: Who is The Doctor? The one who messed up? From responses to my tweets, people said that The Doctor is the one who messed up because they matured, and realized that they won’t do any better so they stopped tripping and tried to heal the situation! *puts hand on chin* I would like to challenge that. I think The Donkey is the person who messed up! WHY…
(Deep breath) (Long sigh) Because people are no longer genuine. Well, not too many people. I can count on one hand how many genuine females I have ran into in my LIFETIME! #nolie. The Donkey messed up and is STILL making things difficult because if you’re not to a point, male or female, that you are COMPLETELY done with bs-in’ around, then it is difficult to re-commit because you’re HUMAN! And there is no worst feeling than to keep messing up and keep getting caught! So, if I put in little to NO effort to fix the situation, my conscious can deal with that. Because who knows… I could mess up again! *shrugs*
By The Doctor taking time to fix ish AGAIN, with a stubborn patient, The Donkey, they have went above and beyond the call of duty. After-hours, house call type ish. But why so much effort? Because you can lie to your head, but you can’t like to you heart. You will notice after time goes on, that this m f-er, flaws and all, made you happier than somebody that’s super-compatible, cute, freaky, etc. That’s why you see beautiful ladies with busted dudes because you might not see it, but he makes her happy. Every female just wants to be happy. You might be happy for a while, hopefully forever, but if it gets rocky again, The Doctor has the liberty to say, “I don’t know why I even took your trifling ass back”! And since little to no effort was put forth to help heal, The Donkey, has the liberty to respond, “You didn’t F*&^$* HAVE TO”!
Summary:
1.) The Doctor can’t operate on anybody who isn’t willing to get on the operating table.
2.) It hurts more to do it all alone. First, evaluate if it’s worth it.
3.) Don’t take my advice.
4.) Follow me on Twitter @jaydukes1911.
~Jay Dukes qka Mr. Million Dollars qka Mr. “Hey… You Look Familiar”
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